Special inspiration: Are you ready to start a new life this coming new year?. You should never be the same so be dynamic and meet your daily needs and fulfill your future goals as well.
To start a new life takes courage and great ambition. Look at all these days, months and years you have spent. Each moment is irreversible but leaves memories in our lives.
The year has almost ended and almost everyone is contemplating how the year has unfolded. The pains, laughter, disappointment, rejection, fears, failures, etc. leave memories in our minds. Memories are good for you – whether is pleasant or unpleasant. Both teach us valuable lessons in life. Ideally good memories worth repeating.
As you keep on moving forward with your dreams, hopes and all the good thoughts, I would like to bring it up into your beautiful life why it is a good thing to start a new life whiles you ride along.
Some would ask why should I start a new life whiles I’m already grown? successful? happy? content? etc. The other person would ask how can I start a new life whiles I despair? lost my job? wife? husband? children and almost everything dear to me?.
This brings us to the most two crucial difference between a “Happy Life” and a “Sorrowful life.”
Both of these two categories of people are not exceptionally from what we know as “Change of life.”
You can change the way you live by implementing positive solutions to your challenges and predicaments. You can also change from “better” to “best.” Know how to be a better person every single day.
Getting Started In A Grand Style
In life, God did not create you to be dormant like a mountain. You grow every single day. And as you grow physically you must also grow psychologically and Spiritually.
Your metabolic body goes through a series of changes to keep you healthy and alive. Imagine how your skin cells start to replace the dead ones.
Yes!, this is exactly what I am talking about. There are a number of dead materials in our lives that need to be cleared. Evil people are just like dead bodies with an awful stench that stays among millions of people. Can’t you get rid of that? Audit your life and get rid of any load pulling you down.
Let bygones be bygones, start a new life. If the relationship has broken into pieces it is not too late, if the job has collapsed it is not too late. It is not over until you have no breath in you. Step forward and alter changes at where it is necessary.
After all, life is not a competition. Live according to your level. Tell the guys out there putting pressure on you to do what you can’t do or afford to mind their own business. Never allow yourself to be persuaded by friends, family members or anyone who fails to see the level of your strength and weakness.
Move at your own pace and you can still reach the promised land. This reminds me of one of my articles entitled “Tortoise Motivation – 3 Lessons From The Tortoise.”
Reason up and put a stop to any wind of failure, sadness etc. blowing in your life. Don’t be like a dead fish that swims with the stream. You need what is called resilience to achieve whatever goal you set today or in the future. Those who lack resilience always fail.
Never forget, every single person you see today is on a journey. I mean a journey of uncertainties. A journey that might end in a tragedy or blissfully.
We don’t wish evil for ourselves but our friends and enemies could do that easily. They will conspire to bring you down. If they ever succeed then you must first blame Yourself. Why?. Because you probably lose focus of your life and how vulnerable you are to failure. You opened the portal for them to have a say in your private life. You failed to create PERSONAL BOUNDARIES for yourself.
However, you are strong enough to bounce back and continue your journey. But never forget the lessons it teaches you when you are starting a new life.
What Brings About Getting Started?
Is it not often about failure or misfortunes? As the saying goes: “there is time for everything.” And as a matter of fact, there are reasons why you or anyone would like to turn on a new leaf or make a significant difference in his/her life.
The very thing pushing you to view life from a different angle isn’t unprecedented. You are surely in the sea boat with millions. Instead of building on a poor foundation — break it down and start again. This time around with strong and genuine materials and tools.
Notable Examples Of Starting A New Life
Let me take a minute to cite a few examples of how certain people started a new life and how it ended.
Actually, almost all the following examples come from the Bible.
1. The Parable Of The Prodigal Son
This son of a rich kind wanted to start his own life somewhere. After demanding for his share of his father’s wealth — he failed miserably to live a better life in his new abode.
2. The Story of Job
The Devil took Job through severe pain and suffering. After losing everything including his Children — God rewarded him a double portion of everything he lost. He began a new life with riches, happiness, and more Children.
3. Natural Regeneration
As a human being, you have the power to recover and fix the broken part of your life. Just as a truncated tree has hopes of regenerating — so as you can rebuild the lose you have experienced. You first need a strong psychological mindset —followed by positive actions.
How To Start A New Life
If you are thinking of starting a new life along with the NEW YEAR then pay attention to these simple gists I’m about to share with you.
To start a new life does not mean you are late. Have I not told you about some of the Real life stories of successful men who started from ZERO???.
Yes even if you are shirtless, broke, sick, unhappy… you need to be grateful to have the most important thing in life. What is it? It is the “breath of life.”
Figuring out how to start a new life is like planning on how to tidy your room. You must:
1. Surely know what is important and what is unimportant.
2. Figure out what is still useful and what has become obsolete.
3. Create a new space for new materials.
Now, you are all set to begin a new life. You have cleared all the garbages Don’t forget to incinerate them anyway.
In real life, the unimportant, useless and obsolete things could be your friends, neighbors, bad memories, classmates, co-workers etc. who don’t add VALUE to your life anymore.
They represent NEGATIVE FIGURES. For example -5 + 3 = -2.
In the above illustration, anyone who makes you feel worthless or steals your happiness is a huge negative figure. Don’t waste a minute trying to fix him/her or mold him/her.
You must trash them and keep on with your life. If they really want to stay in your life they will turn into positive figures themselves. It is not your duty to change the evil character of anyone.
Another helpful tip I would like to give you to help you start a new life is by relocating yourself.
Geographically you can change your life by moving to a place where you can meet new people. You need to start a new life somewhere far away from your drama zone.
This will help you cooperate with different people, friends, workers, neighbors etc.
Burn bridges with friends, exes and all those who possess treat to your beautiful life. Run away from toxic people ASAP and you would eventually realize you made the best choice for yourself.
If you are afraid to say goodbye to people who are no more resourceful in your life but possess a death trap to your dreams and happiness then you are making a BIG mistake. A wolf that hides in sheep clothing is not a sheep. Be careful… had I known is always at last. Burn bridges.
Never find it wasteful if it takes to start life again. You must learn from a creature like a spider. No matter how badly its web gets damaged it will start building a new one. They rebuild webs every day using protein in their bodies. It requires energy. There is no time to complain.
Do it, just do it and stop lamenting. It is a waste of time.