Your Suffering And Pains Are Normal. Having a bad day is very normal and to the extent, it has an unforeseen effect in your life. There are good sides and bad sides. It is up to you to look at the good side; Which is about allowing the bad side to strengthen you. In all, there is nothing to fear about bad days.
Having A Bad Day Is Not A Bad Thing
Hello out there, are you having a bad day?. The world is already a nasty place and so things do fall apart every now and then in everybody’s life.
You might think you are the only one having a bad day and so alone in this fight, but it’s never true. Take a deep breath, relax and you will surely embrace your suffering before you break free. Have you not yet learned anything about how to deal with life’s ups and downs?
In this post, the main idea is to make you understand that; we are merely human beings with countless tasks. In as such, encountering bad days and painful situations are very normal. But there is a way. It is your duty to find it.
This is the only way you can understand the nature of life and why it worth going through all those pains. Before I further, you may want to read my post on; “How to endure pains(physical & emotional).”
A Quick Truth About Life
The moment you were born into this world, you begin to fight for everything you need. Whether it’s a spiritual fight or a physical fight you have to fight by making use of the right tools.
It’s like having a game console right in front of you. And as you grab the joystick, you face series of obstructions. You need to maneuver to reach your target. There you will get the ultimate prize as the champion.
It’s Perfectly Good For You To Suffer And Go Through Pains
Why would even you even say it is a bad thing for you to pass through hell.? No no, in reality, there is nothing bad about having a bad day because the lessons it teaches far outweigh any discomfort you would feel. If you really understand why everything happens for a reason, you would not complain too much.
Open your eyes and don’t let little things bog you down. That pain you feel today has a hidden treasure. You need a jeweler’s eye to see. This world is difficult and unbearable. It’s hot like hell but if you marshal the courage to pass through hell what can bonfire do to you?.
Every single pain you go through in life makes you stronger. There is this popular saying that:
“What doesn’t kill you makes you stronger.”
I guess you agree to that. The sun would not always smile at you and also If it rains the whole day halting all your movement for the day including your job, you would not know anything about happiness when the rain stops.
It is only when the storm stops that will make you realize there is something called relief and happiness. However, you need to be resilient to the storm. Be strong enough to withstand… After your suffering, there would be a great joy.
What I’m saying here is, our discomforts, pains, and sufferings make us fully aware of how dynamic life is. The frog said;
“If I had not fallen into the hot water, I wouldn’t know there are different types of waters.” – African Proverb.
You will get really bored if milk and honey fall in your mouth all the time. Be grateful when it turns to sour like a lemon. You would feel bored if you stay in your mansion enjoying all the luxuries you have, step out and feel whats going on on the other side of the world. It prepares you for greater happiness.
A Bad Day For 2 Guys Will Teach You Lessons
You are not alone if you think you are having a bad day. Here is the story of two guys who unloaded six thousand bricks at the wrong address. Can you imagine this?
Just put yourself in their shoes. Oh my God, they’ve done something silly. It happens to everyone. Imagine writing an article of thousands of words and forgetting to save it… A bad day… Waste of time and energy. But there is a lesson behind these two guys’ reckless move. They have already ruined the day but that isn’t the end of their beautiful lives.
The sun will shine for tomorrow and it will come along with a beautiful smile with a mindful heart of not returning to their vomits like dogs. It’s about cleaning up that mess and never allow it to happen again.
Perhaps we will call it stupidity or a mistake. This kind of awful situation happens to everyone once in a while. This authenticates the saying “to err is human…”
The lesson we often learn from bad days is that we must be very vigilant in our daily activities. Self-awareness is needed when we are out there or performing any task.
However, our silly mistakes teach us valuable lessons to be self-conscious about the things we do. Next time, you will not repeat that mistake.
Finally, it’s nothing new to have a worrisome day for whatever reason. It shall pass away leaving behind a valuable lesson to be learned. Learn how to stop worrying about things that really don’t matter.
Having A Bad Day? – Step Up Your Game!
It is only a dead fish that swims with the stream. You don’t have to be weak in handling difficult situations in your life. If you are having a bad day, make an effort to get out of it. I bet you, some of us have to battle waterfalls, ragging current, and dams to survive. Don’t let that wind blowing in your life carry you away, be deep-rooted like a palm fruit tree.
Having a bad day occurs in everyone’s life. We never give in to our challenges. Ill-situations only make you Stronger so be grateful there are bad days. Yes!, be grateful. They will teach you great lessons so that after a breakthrough, you will look at your past and smile. You will look at your past and offer a toast to your legacies. You made it!.
“Let me tell you something you already know. The world ain’t all sunshine and rainbows. It’s a very mean and nasty place and I don’t care how tough you are it will beat you to your knees and keep you there permanently if you let it. You, me, or nobody is gonna hit as hard as life. But it ain’t about how hard ya hit. It’s about how hard you can get hit and keep moving forward. How much you can take and keep moving forward. That’s how winning is done!.”
– Sylvester Stallone, Rocky Balboa
The moment you develop the mindset of finding some kind of beauty in all the suffering you are going through, your body and soul gradually become numb to any more pains. This shows you are one step ahead of success. Learn how to smile to your pains because you wouldn’t find life on a silver platter.
You would not always be a kid for your Mum to buy you clothes, clean you up, give you housekeeping money, pocket money, breastfeed and spoonfeed you. Change your mindset now, turn bad days into blissful moments.