Have you ever thought of knowing the best ways on how to deal with your enemies?. There are 2 simple ways you must know about it. That enemy is not God. He can’t harm you if you deal with him in the right way.
Knowing how to deal with your enemies appropriately will safeguard you from harm. In life, we all seem to have enemies. There is a type who disclose themselves and enemies who don’t show themselves up.
The funniest part is; No matter how good or righteous you are, you will have enemies. They will hate you for many reasons, they will also hate you for no reason. You can’t say “as for me, I don’t have enemies.” You might be making a big mistake if you think that way.
They will hate you but smile with you always. All that your enemies want from you is your downfall. Their pleasure is to see you suffer and fall into the lowest pit. Your progress or success is a treat to them. For this reason, you must know the best way to deal with your enemies.
Knowing this will help you to draw the big line that will be your personal boundary. Anyone who crosses your personal boundaries is likely to be an enemy.
The enemy has the intention to:
The Bible Says Deal With Enemies With Love
Oh yeah, the Bible is right to tell us to show love to our enemies. And honestly, I agree it is one of the best strategies to keep them wondering why you are unperturbed by their evil plans.
When you smile to your enemy and help him in times of need, he will surely feel awkward. The Bible says when you deal with your enemies that way; you heap coal of fire on their heads. And that is very interesting.
The Story Of The Thief
There is this story about a guy who had an encounter with a thief in his bedroom. This thief threatened to kill him if he makes an attempt to stop him.
Oh well, this guy responded by saying even if you cut me into pieces, every single piece of my body will scream out to say “I love you.”
The thief was speechless. He couldn’t believe his ears. In the next few days, he repented and started reading the Bible to know more about this loving God who loves unconditionally.
One Best Way To Know how to deal with them is to allow them to do their things
It might sound hard for some people to allow their enemies to do their things. Maybe you don’t agree with this one. But surely, it works. As far as you can’t figure out all your enemies, let them grow together along with your loved ones.
Let them do their things. But keep an eye on them so that they don’t cross the borderline. They have their limits. Confronting them when they cross the borderline wouldn’t be a problem. Let everyone know your boundary line.
For this reason, both your enemies and your loved ones wouldn’t cross. You will always stay safe from harm. When all their schemes fail, they will feel very bad. Their jealousy will increase, but they can’t cross over to harm you.
How can you even set your borderline?. It is very simple. Let everyone know what you like and dislike. This will be your most serious boundary. Who dare crosses becomes a treat to you. Believe me, most of your enemies will cross. Because it is only when they cross the borderline that they can have access to you.
If they are within their own borderline, don’t mind them. Let them do their thing. Let them do whatever they like. You just have to turn deaf ears on their conspiracies and noises. Keep an eye on your borderline. The one who crosses disposes himself/herself as a real enemy. Keep them away from you.
The Second Best Way To Deal With Enemies Is To Mind Your Own Business
As you define a borderline(Personal boundary) for your enemies, you must mind your own business too. There is no good reason to cross over your enemies zone. Do your own thing. Keep on with whatever makes you happy.
Your job and your own life should be your first priority. If you live your life without minding what people say; You will surely come out with greater output.
Invest in your self, make good use of your time. But not interfering with your enemies in the form of litigation, quarreling, etc. Concentrate on your success and your enemy will burst out of jealousy.
How long can your enemies hate you, as you keep on becoming successful? His/her grieve will increase whiles your happiness increases. Your decisions, smile, laughter, walks, talk, and everything will be thorns for your enemies. Leave them uncomfortable whiles you mind your business in a grand style.
If your enemy is wasting his/her time planning on you and thinking about you; use your time to plan for a better future.
This is the best way to deal with enemies. Just give it a try and you will always be on top of your enemies. No need to fight or hate them back. It is like a mind game.
Be wise enough to let your life and success be your focus. As you mind your own business, you will become happy. Despite all the conspiracies of your enemies, you will succeed.