If you want to find true happiness and success in life, there is one thing you should know about: Nobody cares, work harder. Face reality by letting your own actions speak. This will bring a positive change to you
Here is it; you carry a great burden that many people have no idea about. Even those who become knowledgable about your struggles and predicaments stand afar and watch. What are you going to do with your life?; nobody cares, work harder until you break free from all the shackles of pains. All your excuses are invalid, just put in the work.
Don’t waste time waiting to expect the ship to carry you along. Make a strong decision to carry yourself even through the strongest ocean current.
It’s a pleasure to have you here read about one of the painful truths in life. I want to remind you that, too many expectations from people can ruin your life. Why would you lay your dreams on someone’s head? why would you think of laying down your problems on someone’s head?.
If you are so obsessed with why people aren’t helping you out achieve your dreams, then you are making a big mistake. Remember that, it cost to give than to receive and people are always prioritizing their needs first. Is there any crime in this? Hell No!.
Well, you will not make such kind of mistakes after reading this post; because I want you to know that nobody cares about your nagging situations, so work hard and break free.
This may be hard to accept but it would do you great help.
In this post, I want you to develop a strong mindset toward your personal development and anything you hold valuable. Remember the words of Albert Einstein: He thanked everyone who said ‘no.’ Because of them, he did it by himself.
“I am thankful for all of those who said NO to me. It’s because of them I’m doing it myself”
— Albert Einstein
Facing Life Reality With Your Problems
You came to this planet alone. The greatest support we ever get comes from our parents or families. They actually cared for our lives and happiness. But that love and care start diminishing when you grow up. This is the time you begin to take full responsibility for your life.
You can’t expect your mother to buy clothes for you, feed you, and build you a house to stay in while you are grown up, married with your own kids.
When that responsibility shifts from your mother/father to you; it doesn’t literally mean your parents don’t care about you anymore. Well, this is life reality. Time changes, people also change so you must be dynamic to cope with every situation that crosses your path.
For me to tell you that, nobody cares, work harder; it doesn’t literally mean nobody cares about you. But the simplest truth behind this is: “everyone has his own problems.”
And it is so hard to get the help or the support you need from family members, friends, loved ones, etc. They need help also and that would surely reduce the kind of attention they would have for you. If you really know why you should work hard, then you wouldn’t worry about the drama people bring to your Door Step.
Those who are meant to care and support you will show up at the right time. Just relax. And things will happen out simultaneously. God does a lot of miracles for us each day without acknowledging it.
Don’t Worry – People Will Care When…
Let me tell you this. Your obsession with feeling neglected because no one seems to care is useless. If you really want to enjoy the love, care, and help from almost everyone; then it would take two things:
1. When they see your lifeless body
Yes! That is the moment they will give you the best of care, respect, and honor. A kind of attention you never had when you were alive. It sounds stupid though, but we have come to live with that as something normal: “last respect.” “RIP.”
2. When you make it big in life
Yes! After surviving through hell to establish something better in life, you become the center of attraction.
This has become something normal because our society has lost the view of its uselessness. If you can’t help me survive or achieve my lofty goals, while you can; then don’t dare spend a wad of banknotes at my funeral. I already know and accept the fact that nobody cares so I have to work hard as a slave and live like a King in the long run.
The time they may pay attention to you and start caring is when you reach the promised land. But now, since you are dusting yourself in the desert – nobody would get in touch. This looks perfectly normal with the kind of generation we are living in. And it sounds stupid!.
I often say we have all got priorities. And if you need money to establish your own business as your greatest priority; then work hard to accrue that capital or find the best way out.
The person you may expect substantial support from has also got priorities. Why would he sacrifice his highest priority for yours?.
This would hardly work out for anyone. How you make it big in life depends on the kind of thoughts you feed your mind, the goals you set(are they feasible?), the decisions you make, and how serious you want that thing.
Nobody Cares – They Are Just Curious
Sometimes, you may get the attention of people who get to know about your goals or problems. No matter how serious your situation is; it wouldn’t be that serious to the third person you are talking to.
This authenticates the quote: “he who wears the shoe knows where it pinches.” You will feel the pang of the pain of living a difficult life. Not everyone would like to see you achieve your lofty goals.
You can’t read the minds of all those who smile at you or exchange pleasantries with you. The heart is very wicked and only God can probe through to know everyone’s intentions. There are many kinds of enemies of progress who would stay in your inner circle.
Even the little help you may get from someone in support of your goals or relief you of your troubles might not come from a genuine heart.
People could be so curious to the extent that your secret plans to build a successful life in the future would irritate them. How would they even know?.
Their inquisitive approach in the form of a potential helper would let you pour out your innermost secrets. This is all that they want. There is nothing like a genuine interest in helping you out.
Now what that kind of person could do is to sabotage you or wish you bad luck. Oh yeah, they could be very jealous of the progression of others. Why hasn’t that progression or favor didn’t come to their side? – they ask!.
The only difference you could make is to work hard while you maintain a positive attitude towards your goals. Don’t ever expect someone’s help before you set a realistic goal and work towards it. By the way, there is no shame in asking for help when necessary. You must tell yourself; mind and body every day that nobody cares, work harder. This should be your mentality.
Without anyone caring, they would stand afar and never take their eyes off you. People would rather give you a good watch as if you are a television than a helping hand.
Don’t Blame Them – Nobody Cares, Work Harder
After realizing that getting the support to move forward in life is very unlikely, there is no need to be resentful. Sometimes, the situation of your prospect helper would prevent him from helping you.
The reason is simple. That person also has some kind of demons to fight. He can’t leave his battleground and fight for you.
So no matter how you reach out for help… Help will never come. All you can do is to do it yourself. And by believing in yourself you can achieve anything you set your mind on. But when the help comes, you must be very grateful.
Life is like a battleground, when you don’t get anyone to help you fight your battles, don’t quit?!. Everyone is fighting his own battle, those who succeed earlier have the advantage of giving you a helping hand. Even that is an option for them. So don’t even expect it.
When the help comes, grab it and speed up your game. When nobody shows up… Keep moving forward because if you think you are really sick, you wouldn’t expect anyone to medicate for you to recover and stay healthy.
Take all the bitter pills in life without showing any signs of pain or discomfort. In the long run, the pay off would be great. The end is what everyone wants to see but not your wretched hustling life.
In a nutshell, the truth that authentic this very popular and powerful quote: “work hard nobody cares” is about “working hard despite all the obstructions.”
Yes! The real charm of success is putting in your maximum effort to see your dreams come true. Forget about people and their promises.