You are responsible for your success and happiness. Even if you are in difficult situations— you can grow and be who you want to be. Life will not give you a red carpet to walk on. Find your own red carpet through hard work, perseverance, self-discipline, and goals that never fades.
A stunted tree even has hope for the future. Therefore growing through difficult times is a journey to your promised Land.
You had no choice to be on this planet but right after childhood— you become fully responsible for your words, decisions and actions. Nothing is certain but you can derive the best out of every single situation you find yourself.
Today’s inspirational message is purposely for anyone who is growing through difficult times. Apparently more than half of the world’s population have to go through difficult situations before they can break free.
You are just one out of billions of people who are also growing through difficult times. It would, therefore, be unwise to complain too much. Instead, take enough action that will bring you positive results. It is never too late— so far as there is breath in you.
I am hopeful this post will give you the inspiration to stay positive throughout all the pains and sorrows life barrages on you.
Someone who is growing through difficult times but remains ambitious will tell you; He is like a seedling growing through concrete. The power of resilience to failure will fetch you a brighter future. It is only only a dead fish that swims with the stream.
“You’re going to go through tough times – that’s life. But I say, ‘Nothing happens to you, it happens for you.’ See the positive in negative events.”
Many of us were not born silver spoon in our mouths. It, therefore, becomes a necessity to survive each day by any possible means.
The Ultimate Goal Is Always Achievable
If you are growing through difficult times— you must learn how to endure pains and suffering. All this don’t kill you. It rather strengthens you physically, emotionally and psychologically.
The greatest achievement anyone would like to have on earth; is to be happy. How?. To enjoy financial independence, a happy marriage, good health, good education, gain respect and have fun.
Now the question is what is preventing you from achieving this ultimate goal?. The list of challenges keeps on increasing. It never ends. Who will help?. There seems to be no one. So what?. Help yourself. Call on God to be your provider, protector, and hope.
It is very possible to achieve any lofty goal you set in your life. You may be growing through hell now; But, remember that is temporal. Refuse to be burned up. Sustaining injuries is normal. Just survive with hope. Eventually, you will achieve your goals.
If you have any doubt— spend a minute reading about these 3 people who succeeded from zero. The additionally listed personality actuality succeeded from being a dishwasher into a millionaire.
Growing Through Difficult Times Is Normal
Why do I Say it’s normal to grow through difficult times?. God expects us to sweat before we find something to eat. The most successful persons on earth didn’t have their monies and wealth so easily.
There are myths about people who have gained financial freedom. “They inherited wealth from their parents, they were lucky, born silver spoon in their mouths and blah blah blah.”
If you dare look at things from that angle you would never unearth your talents, potentials and the will power that brings success and happiness.
Although a number of people were born into rich families— it shouldn’t discourage you to think you are from a poor family so you would always be poor. Don’t be mediocre. Lazy people always find excuses for their fears, weaknesses, and aimlessness.
The Choice Is Always Yours
Just like I said earlier; being part of this hectic life is not your choice but what you become is your choice. Don’t tell me you have been growing through difficult times since birth so there is no hope for you in the future. Oh uh… If you truly believe there is no hope for you then you shouldn’t be alive by now. It is pretty simple because; it is the dead that has no hope.
Bill Gate did not make a mistake by saying that poverty is a matter of choice. What do you say to yourself each day?. What choices do you make each day?. Well, if you do not know how to make the best choices in life; I recommend reading my article about how to make good choices.
Break Free From Subconscious Programming And Mental Slavery
According to expert people who come from poor families have been programmed to believe that they are weak, less worthy and cannot be rich. On the other hand, someone from a rich family has also been programmed to believe that he is rich and will always be rich even if he is stupid.
This is due to the fact that up to age 7, the subconscious mind holds the notion built within it.
Bruce Lipton, a stem cell biologist explained how to break the negative programming in the subconscious mind in an interview.