Have you ever had friends that are like brothers before?. They are precious like diamond and rare like the Siberian tiger.
Life is beautiful if you have friends that are like brothers. There are many types of friends we relate to. Some are like brothers. Such are very rare. Brothers are not always people you share the same blood with. Some friends are like brothers or more than that. Be grateful if you ever get one. Know about the things that make a friend special.
Friends come into our lives naturally. It is not a big deal to make friends, but it is a big deal to make friends that are like brothers. They are the real people who can help you in so many ways to feel the way you want to feel. But this kind of person is very rare.
There are too many fakes everywhere. Anything good doesn’t come easily. So if you ever lay hands on anyone whose friendship is genuine as a real Diamond; then uphold it high.
The best kind of brotherly friendship that I have heard about is what happened in the Bible. I am talking about David and Jonathan. Everything looked perfect in their relationship.
A fake friend can make your life miserable if you fail to spot him out and cut ties with him entirely. Fake people are only interested in your failure and pains. So never tolerate their nonsense.
However, there are proficient ways to know, if your friends are really good friends or not.
1. Can they be trusted?
2. Could that person hold your back?
3. Can that friend help you in terms of hardships?.
4. Does he have good thoughts about you?. a
5. Is he ready to give you good advice?
Your answers to the above questions can help you determine friends that are like brothers and vise-versa. I will go a little further to explain in the next paragraphs.
Just be vigilant because good friends are expensive to have. You don’t necessarily have to get stuck to your family members. Some may not worth your relationship. Friends like brothers can do that.
Only your real friends will tell you when your face is dirty.
Friendship begins in just a single day. Each and everyone has friends, although some might say; “I have no friend“. That cannot be true. Think about that. We start life from our houses, live with our families. Then the extension or exposure sets in.
The next immediate place to meet friends is your community followed by school, workplace, church, etc. Strangers or acquaintances easily end up being our friends.
Here Are Things To Expect From A Genuine Friendship
It is not all about your childhood friends but about friends who show genuine concern about you. Consider the following:
1. Trust Issues:
Honestly, it is not advisable to trust so much. If you can, don’t trust people. Let your trust be hard for people to earn. You can read into detail my post on knowing about the 4 reasons why you should not trust anybody.
Friends that are like brothers are trustworthy people, not 100% though. It will take quite a long time to know if that friend could be trusted in a way or not.
Anyone who has friends that are like brothers wouldn’t have to worry much about giving them their room keys. Let’s say, you have stayed with these friends in your room for a while. Surely, these friends will often visit you at the house. In a case like this, you can leave your room keys with them.
They are like a family to you so they will certainly take care of every property in your room.
2. Concern About Your Well Being:
Here is another important thing to figure out in friends that are like brothers. A true brother with the same bloodline as you might not care about your life; But a friend or some friends might care. That is the type of person you can count as a brother.
Talking about friends’ concerns about you depends on many factors. Factors such as your health, future, plans, life challenges, and almost everything in your daily routines. Do you think you have such a kind of friend?.
Anyways, let me clarify this; friends that are like brothers could be people of the opposite sex. If they have a brotherly mindset toward you, then they are part of your family.
Friends who are compassionate about you worth more than brothers who are “care-free.”(they don’t care about anything).
It is not always the bloodline that makes someone a brother but the worth of that person in your life. You can feel proud to call your friend “brother.”
3. Friendship With Fun:
Friends like brothers share a common interest. Someone might call them peers. They are very influential. If you have good friends who will live a socially acceptable life, you will always be respected. There is a saying that; “birds of the same feather flock together.”
Meaning those guys in your friendship circle will share a whole lot of common things together. Life would be very boring if there is nothing like entertainment. You can’t have fun alone. But with the right people around you; you can enjoy life in so many ways.
Fun is something that strengthens friendships. Here you are having friends that are like brothers; Why not occasionally go out to have fun. Weekend fun with friends has a lot of benefits.
A little prank, laughter, party, etc,. with brotherly friends is always the best game to play to release your happy hormones. You can read about some of the best ways to prank your friends. Give them a try and see what happens.
4. A Piece Of Advice:
These friends like brother show much concern about your well-being; They will never hold back reprimanding you when you do anything wrong or silly.
If you are about to make bad choices, they will not sit there unconcerned. You are part of their lives in terms of relationships not bloodline. If you make it right, they will feel proud, if you mess up, they will feel awkward. The connection between you guys is so strong.
They must be ready to share both the joys and sorrows with you. You are a virtual family with your valuable friends now. So together, you can make each other’s world beautiful.