Being a real man is not a joke. Life is not for sissies, it takes real men to fight and conquer and obstruction of success.
The Truth About Being A Real Man In Life
The quote “Life is war” explains almost everything in three simple words…Life is a journey and in this journey, there are major and minor transitions;There are ups and downs and a whole lot of crappy things to deal with.Living life is like being in a battle field you never chose.You have no choice.So far as you are born unto earth,then you must have a share of the cake.Being a real man makes the difference between the “Warrior” and the “Civilian“,
“Let me tell you something you already know. The world ain’t all sunshine and rainbows. It’s a very mean and nasty place and I don’t care how tough you are it will beat you to your knees and keep you there permanently if you let it. You, me, or nobody is gonna hit as hard as life. But it ain’t about how hard ya hit. It’s about how hard you can get hit and keep moving forward. How much you can take and keep moving forward. That’s how winning is done!”
― Sylvester Stallone,Rocky Balboa.
The sun shines from the East and setS in the West giving us 24 hours daily. “Time and tide wait for no man”, so whatever you have now, make good use of it.Being a real man calls for the abilities of a warrior whose focus is on conquering his enemies and all obstacles.
Reasons Why Being A Real Man Has Never Been Easy
Being a real man does not literally mean “man”.Not at all.Women too could be real men in terms of facing their fears and challenges. There is a saying that ” what men can do women can do it better“.Whether you agree or disagree women can also make huge difference in the ‘battlefield of life’.
Now let’s consider the following facts that make it uneasy to be a real man.
To be a real man,you must be wiling to take reasonable risk to achieve your goals.A risk is the “weakest bridge” you need to pass over to your destination. What if your passage over the bridge doesn’t end well?.This thought(negative thoughts) is out of context. Why?.Because true warriors on the battle field can handle results of their actions.Maybe, I haven’t told you that, there are numerous benefits of risk taking.
You can’t escape pains if you really want to be in the winning team. You can’t use shortcut to achieve your dreams. For anyone thinking of being a real man in life must be willing to endure pains.It might be physical, psychological or emotional pains. These pains can paralyze you if you succumb to it.Don’t be a failure because of that temporal pains in your life.Pains is something good for your life.
3.The Hatred And Dejection
If you can’t withstand dejection, insults,hatred and all forms of defamation, then it is time to buckle your shoes and stand firm.Some words hurts more than physical abuse.Being a real man,you must endure.Let the insults flow over your ears like water and keep fighting. The wind might blow,but be strong enough to withstand.