The issue of telling lies has been debatable for years but read this article to find out some interesting truth about telling lies.Life is beautiful and it is not good to tell lies to ruin it.Watch out for its consequencies
Hello beautiful people, once again we are to learn something interesting and this time it is about “telling lies”.Do everyone tell lies? and is it good to tell lies?In this article I will let us consider some of the pros and cons of telling lies with further explanations
What Is Lies?
First, let’s understand what lies is?.
Lies can be defined as an intentionally false statement of decieving.Is it good to tell lies?Read this article as I take you through some of the life challenges that make us tell lies but my quick answer to the question above is “No”, it is not good to tell lies.
Understanding The Nature Of Lies And Why It Is Not Good To Tell Lies
In the bible, Satan is the father of lies so in this case all liars are children of Satan.Wow!,how satirical it sounds.I don’t think there is a single person on earth who hasn’t told lies before, even your pastor is not an exception, neither me.
I have almost accused everyone of telling lies before, but please if you are exception drop your comment in the comment box at the end of this article.
Situations arises in our lives and we are to tell lies to cover things up.But the secret is every lies told would be under the limelight someday.There are two risks involved in telling lies:
1. To be caught,feel disgraced in life.
2. Either you surpass being caught and disgraced in life but move around with guilty conscience, and that could haunt you for a very long time.
Examples Of Telling Lies
Now let us consider some basic examples of telling lies.Someone could falsify a certificate to get job at the cost of those who meet all the qualifications.
Yes that lies would make you enjoy your new job but remember the risk you have taken,its consequences and repercussions.What “if” you get exposed?. How would you feel?.Now, I wouldn’t like anyone who finds himself in a situation like this to complain when caught because falsification of documents is like making a deal with the devil, you agreed to the terms and conditions.
The negative result of this could end you in prison and the positive side is you would enjoy doing a kind of job you don’t qualify for. For me to cite an example I would prefer using and immediate and recent one that happened in Ghana.
The IT boss of SSNIT(Social Security And National Insurance Trust) in the person of Dr. Caleb Afaglo used falsified first degree certificate to get his job.Now he has been dismissed. He may have to return all the salaries paid to him by the Trust.
Others too are brilliant enough to tell lies through the power of their pens especially those working in financial institutions. They can just add zeros to certain about of monies to inflate it to their advantage.
In fact telling lies is like borrowing from someone and that thing you borrowed would be in your possesion but it is never yours.You have to pay back and that is how the devil is.He will never give you anything for free, he being the father of lies would incite you with ideas of making a successful lies to gain whatever you want but as you enjoy remember there is pay back time.
But some people would argue that it is not all lies that are harmful and so they call it “white lies“.Such a wonderful name to prove telling lies.Is it good to tell white lies?
Well, let me share my thoughts with you, indeed every lie is a lie but as a proud Christian like me if I find myself in a situation where telling lies would let someone escape an instant death I will do so simply because God values life more than anything.
Let’s consider a critical situation like this; an angry man who has chased his wife with machete, forces the wife to come to your house to find solace.The wife then asks you to protect her.Then all of a sudden the husband appears from nowhere with his branded cutlass asking aggressively for her wife.
Looking at a scenario like this if you tell the truth a life would be lost in a brutal manner so this situation would call for the so-called “white lies”.And honestly I will tell lies to the husband that I haven’t seen her wife.Would there be any heartless homo sapiens to expose that pathetic woman?.But if you could sacrifice your life for that pathetic woman to make her safe it would be a heroic moment for honoring you.
You died for your neighbour and God will reward you for that. This is the greatest kind of love anyone can show in life. On the other hand there is a challenging situation that takes spiritual strength from above to avoid telling lies.I am directing this one to all Christians especially.
Jesus Christ told Peter that “before the cock crows you will deny me three times”.Peter said to Jesus, “I will never deny you”, he even swore but what happened when the Roman soldiers arrested Jesus?.Peter denied knowing Jesus three times as Jesus had said.Peter told lies that he knew nothing about Jesus.
How funny it is.After telling lies he remembered what Jesus had said so he felt guilty, wept and confessed through prayers(Matthew 26:34 and Matthew 26:69 – 75).
Adding to this,for every Christian our foundation is Jesus Christ so to deny him is one of the greatest sin on earth.Jesus said if you deny him on earth he will also deny you in heaven.In this case I don’t recommend telling lies by denying Jesus, if it happens that telling lies about Jesus would prevent you from being killed or tortured then you would be making a big mistake as a believer.
Almost all the disciples of Jesus died by telling the truth about Jesus. Yes they chose to die for the sake of Jeusus.This is what every believer must do.At least I know somewhere in Iraq Christian are choosing death for the sake of Jesus. They know how terrible it is to deny Jesus by telling lies. We should remember all those in that situation in prayers.Amen.
Notable Ways By Which Some People Tell Lies
Telling lies could be in many forms and another one is impersonation.And for all my life the most common ones I know happens between twin sisters.Differentiating between identical twins is hard like separating fine salt from sugar.
1.Lies Out Of Jealousy
When jealousy arises one can steal the other one’s husband,job,or any kind of property without being exposed in the short run….Greed also plunges people into situations that make them find themselves telling lies to have access to something they could never acquire in their life.
Many often, telling lies in relationships or marriages become a norm in certain people’s lives.And this has raised a number of debates; “men and women who tell the most lies?”.This very question is very hard for me to judge personally because I know both sides are capable and good at telling lies.It sounds funny anyway.
I learnt that, to outsmart a liar just ask him/her a pressing question and as the person answers stare at him or her directly with all seriousness and there you will notice clichés,and stammering from the answer given.This could show that this very person is telling lies.If he or she flows with the answer then probably this very person is not telling lies but the truth.
Honestly, telling lies is very sweet but the sweetness doesn’t last long just like I said earlier,it is like borrowing and you must pay back.To accuse someone of adultery or fornication you would need to prove to authenticate it without any denial.Some people are good at defending lies by swearing or puting their hands in fire unless you catch them red-handed.
2.Lies Out Of Complicated Situations
Another interesting thing I have found about telling lies is that, lies has never been logical that is why it is easy to investigate and find the truth about a supposed crime that happened between or within a group of people.
Investigation between two people of a crime by asking them the same questions separately would bring out the truth. Assuming a woman accused me of raping her by reporting me to the police.For the police to find out the truth the woman in question could be asked about how I have positioned my home equipment or appliances and the colours of those items.I hope you get what I mean?.
Say, when you enter my room you will see that I have positioned my bed in the left corner but the woman answers that my bed is on the right side to a question about my bed’s location. She would then be found a liar and this is one legitimate thing about the illogical aspects of telling lies.When it is blue,you say red,when it is two you say three.You are exposed, bam!.
Finally, considering the pros and the cons of telling lies,we could see that sometimes it is necessary,exceptionally when it is to save life.One lie can save a life and one lie can make lose a life.If you ask me; “is it good to tell lies?”.My answer would be “No” but if your answer is to save life or get a life lost then I will recommend you tell lies because there is nothing precious than life.
Apart from that I don’t see any good reason to prove the so-called “white lies”.Millions of dollars cannot buy one life and in the bible Jesus demonstrated how important it is to choose saving life over breaking sabbath laws which in the days of Moses was punishable by instant justice by stoning the culprit to death.
Choose wisely but don’t be a fun of lies because it is very harmful in the long run.Share your contributions,comments and feedbacks with me below.