Have you ever thought of having your grand wish come true?. The awful truth is that not all wishes could come true. Again, a wish could be very disastrous. So be careful of what you wish for.
In The Strange Land Of Wishes
Understanding how to make your wish come true is nothing like a rocket science. Before you read any further, I would like you to bear in mind that, a wish is hard to come true.
It is more like a fantasy. Unlike ‘goals’ and ‘future dreams’ that are very possible to materialize. If you would like any positive wishes ( which is a fanciful thought) come true then you must turn them into dreams. Work for it. There is a popular proverb that states:
“If wishes were horses, beggars would ride”
“If “if’s” and “and’s” were pots and pans, There’d be no work for tinkers’ hands.”
There are moments we get the feeling of having something or doing something amazing. Each one of us has wished for things we have never had in our lives. Kids, for instance, have a lot of wild wishes.
Imagine, someone wishing to be a superhero because he has watched movies about Superman, Spiderman, Hulk, Black Panther etc. Is that real?. Hell No!.
Imagine someone wishing to be the best footballer, songwriter, Beautician, comedian etc. in the world. Such wishes could come true through hard work and perseverance.
How can you even make that wish come true?.
In the next paragraphs, I will share with you interesting facts about wishes and how to make them come true. It reminds me of one of my articles about “Dreams Come True – Part 1 & 2).” Apparently, not all wishes could come true. Don’t build castles in the air. Be realistic.
Before I begin it all, let me ask; What are your ideal wishes all day and night?.
♦. Is it about buying a house, car, airplane etc?.
♦. Has it been about making insane money like Bill Gates, Warren Buffet, Mark Zuckerberg, Elon Musk etc?.
♦. Is it about marrying the most beautiful girl in your house, school, workplace etc. ?
♦. Or is it about Getting a high-quality job with an awesome salary?.
Suppose God ask you to tell him 3 wishes in your life and he will do it instantly. I believe most of you guys out there would be selfish and materialistic.
Yes!, they will wish to be the best in all facets of life.
♦. Would anyone even wish for peace around the world?
♦. Would anyone even wish for an end to racism, discrimination and all forms of hatred?
I doubt many of you out there would wish for an end to poverty. According to “DoSomething“, more than 1.3 billion people live in extreme poverty. In all, almost half of the world’s population is in poverty. Just think about it.
Finally, is your wish about seeing someone you hate fail miserably in life?. What at all is your wish?. Don’t tell me you have none. I wouldn’t buy it.
Yes, a wish could be positive or negative. There is a strong advice that; ” you should be very careful of what you wish for.”
This invariably will take us to the issue of “reality and fantasy” lifestyle and how it affects us.
Getting Prepared To turn Wishes Into Reality
To make your wish come true :
1. Make sure it is feasible, be careful not to step into a world of fantasies, else you would never see your wish come true.
2. Attach action to that wish. A wish without action is useless, it is like chasing the wind. You have to chase the thief to get back your belongings but you don’t stand there gazing… wishing you have caught him.
How To Make Your Wish Come True
In an extension of making all those beautiful wishes come true, make the following practices part and parcel of your life.
1. A Wish
Make a wish. I mean a feasible one. Don’t think like what kids do. It doesn’t matter how big that wish is. “If” It is reasonable and feasible, you will see it come true.
2. Let Your Pen And Paper Talk
Write down all those beautiful wishes. Seriously, if you want to see them come true, then list everything down. Revise it each day to remind you of what you intend to have.
3. Any Role Model? Find One
Learn From people who have already achieved that very thing you are wishing for. You can ask them for advice, how they made it possible. Read a lot about ways to see your beautiful wishes come through.
4. Be determined To Sacrifice
Hard Work is the next thing you have to do. It is not a magical world to call out for your wishes to appear. You don’t open your mouth and say you wish to have a car and it will appear. You don’t have to open your mouth and wish to have your favorites food and have it. If you do that, you will starve to death and see your foolishness in the grave.
Even though you have written down your wishes, you must work hard to see them come through. Perhaps the only instance you can sit down, put your hands in your lap and see your wishes come true is ” if you were a SORCERER.”
But be warned using dark forces to help see your dreams come true wouldn’t end you well. God detests that. Lazy people fall prey to the devil’s schemes because they never want to sweat but they want to have everything they wish for.
Never Wish For Certain Things, Even If It Is Feasible
This world is big enough with so many people with different cultures, beliefs, characters, talents, lifestyles etc.
What I am trying to insinuate here is; there are things that are beautiful but never wish for them. It only makes you an enviable person. You then become stupid by taking every mile to make that wish come true.
There are quite a number of people who do not understand nature and how we can live a natural life that correlates with what nature has given us.
Have you ever seen someone who looks so cute that you wish you were her/him?. I guess you have.
Did you choose that face you see in the mirror? did you choose that face or stature you are having?. Hell No!. It’s natural and a gift from God.
There is an African proverb that says;
” I wish I were you is a calamity.”
This is a sheer greediness. Don’t escalate things by trying to be like someone you envy.
If you want something, make sure it is reasonable, legit and achievable. We are human beings with functioning brains, use it wisely.
You can’t cheat nature so be very careful. This advice mainly goes to the women of today. Most of them are obsessed with beauty. They don’t care to breach the skin to be like someone they wish to be. They don’t care to spend thousands of dollars on the body and facial surgery(plastic surgery).
The end result is pathetic. We all have wishes but not all wishes hold water. Let it be just a fantasy and forget about it within a blink of an eye. Tap into the world of reality with a positive mindset, hard work, and with perseverance, you can make the impossible possible.